AMONG THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF WOMEN PUT HER FACE PICTURES ON
THE INTERNET:
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It would make a man intentionally or not who sees it becomes tempted, even creating
stains in his heart, make him fantasize (thinking) day and night, and even
worse as could cause bad intentions or even commit a crime
Although
a woman covers the entire body except the face and palms of her hands, then she
shows herself in social media then this also cannot guarantee would save the
people whose seen it from fitnah (causing problems between people/attempt to
create chaotic situation that tests one’s faith), because woman's face has a
very strong attraction to men, so that, even if the entire body covered
properly, but if her face is showed and displayed in front of the visitors of
the account, then it could cause a scandal at the heart of the beholder.
Caused
by people who witnessed the photo could be scandalize then women should not put their face images on
pages that can be accessed by the men who is not her mahrom (someone who you
can marry, someone who you should cover yourself)
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Teasing a man, makes him to not lower his gaze, whereas in the Qur'an ordered
to gaze. In the real life, man has not
dare to take a long time staring at women, especially with the one he doesn’t
know yet. Men seem to be embarrassed if they
caught when they was looking at the woman constantly.
But
with the photos on the internet, give a chance to men to see it as long as they
want without feeling ashamed, because no one would notice them. And it could bring some of negative effects
for both men and women. Therefore women should help the men by preventing this
to happen, such as not to display their pictures.
How
many women who are victims of a bad man started from Facebook, were invited to
meet, deceived, kidnapped, raped, killed, etc., begins with the man interested
in seeing her photo on FB, as is often reported by the media.
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Your photos can be copied and edited by bad people, turned into pornographic
images, or used for other things that harm you, (for example, they make an
account by using your photograph )
There
is a question for Muslim women who display a picture on the internet, Who do you
display the photos for ?
Allaah
Subhana Wa Ta’ala has ordered muslim and muslimah to protect their eyes from
the opposite sex who is not mahram. Not only that, Allaah also ordered to all
of them to look after each other.
When uploading your photos
on the internet then you indirectly have "signed the contract" that
you liberate anyone to be free to look at you without exception. So where is your
protection against your honorary and others?
O
women ... do you know that:
(1)
The more stares of men who are tempted to you (if in purpose shows the beauty /
beauty of the body and appear tempting) then will increase your sins more
(2)
the more men imagine about you .... the more passionate they become for you
then the more your sins will increase too…
(3)
Don’t you think the smile that you share carelessly, will not be accountable in the future .. !!!.
It could
be your smile, instantly become the fantasy
of a man who is not lawful to you (not halal) for days and days.., especially
the beauty of your body ....
(4)
If you protect your beauty and the elegance of your body only for your husband
... then you will be more beautiful and more elegant in Allaah’s Paradise ...,
(5)
However, if you let the beauty and the elegant spread out, then remember that all of that will be gone
and will melt in the grave and becomes the food of worms and caterpillars ...
And
in the hereafter ... it could be turned into the fuel of Hell fire !!
Nabicity 26/04/1436H
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