Category: The sparkle of LOVE
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(Mother’s Message)
O my daughter, please read this messages from me :
My Princess ...
Don’t you think, that the marriage is just a love and a life
contents with pleasing feeling, soft words that you hear day and night ...
My Princess ...
Do not be surprised if you have prepared a romantic dinner with
all your abilities, suddenly your husband see you like you are not there…
Although you are trying to seduce him, but he said calmly:
"I do not have time for this." Or said: "I'm busy."
My Princess ...
Do not be surprised if your husband knows you are sick, but he
forgets to ask, How you are ...
Do not be surprised if your husband pay less attention to admire
your beauty and your neat house ...
Do not be surprised if you do not hear from him the love words
and seduction ...
My Princess ...
Do not wait for boat to dock on dry land ...
You do it right away before your husband, do not await from him
...
Remember my Princess :
Verily your husband’s surroundings is different from yours,
sometimes your husband is in the harsh environment, or his parents busy, so in
his life, he did not hear the words of love and affection, etc ...
Bear In Mind ...
That a husband walk into domestic life in a state of worry is
not able to fulfil his responsibilities, because his responsibility is greater
than women's responsibility, so the difference is pretty clear ... Due to earn
a living and meet the needs of the household is his responsibility ...
So his thoughts busy with things like that, and he does not
think as what you are thinking, my princess ...
Bear In Mind ...
That the man characters is different from woman characters ...
This is a fitrah (pure human nature) from both ...
Don’t wish that you able to change the nature and fitrah
instanly ...
Bear In Mind ...
That man’s job full of overwhelming issues... which will give an
impact to his nerves any time ...
Bear In Mind ...
That every man is different on how they express their feelings:
There are men who are good in the art of expressing their
feelings,
There are some who revealed by his actions,
There are some who speechless and unable to speak ...
Therefore, accept your husband with any circumstances, say
praise to God, and do not ask for more that your husband does not have ...
Bear In Mind ...
That a husband also need love and affection,
Indeed, Allah Ta'ala explained, that a compassionate woman is
the comfort (tranquality) that Allah gave to His servants
(ومن آياته أن خلق لكم من أنفسكم أزواجا لتسكنوا إليها وجعل بينكم
مودة ورحمة إن في ذلك لآيات لقوم يتفكرون)
And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves
mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you
affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought..
(QS. 30:21)
So do not delay – O my princess - reveale your love and good
speech, so husband’s ears familiar to hear it...
If you are not making familiar with it, then don’t expect you
will be having in exchange of sweet words from him ... Fill your husband's ears
and hearts by you – O my princess - with soft words and good feeling ...
Bear in mind my princess ...
That life would not be straight if only standing on feelings,
because feelings may not be realized in the real world ...
So be a woman who is in the real world, not in the ivory tower
...
Thus, hopefully beneficial.
source:
"Al-Zawaaj wa Al-Ahlaam Al-Wardiyyah", Marwah Joseph
'Aashoor.
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Makkah 27/03/1436 H
By: Nur ad-Din Abu Faynan
Editor: Arfah Umm Faynan
Translator : Ferna Ummu Harun
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